Have You Committed Spiritual Adultery? | Pastor Ben Diaz

This Sunday, Pastor Ben continued our teaching on the Bride of Christ, taking us deeper into what it means to live in covenant intimacy with Jesus. Scripture teaches us to know God as our Father and ourselves as His sons and daughters, but it also gives us another powerful picture: we are the Bride, and Jesus is the Bridegroom.

The Bride of Christ: Undivided Devotion

Pastor Ben Diaz


This Sunday, Pastor Ben continued our teaching on the Bride of Christ, taking us deeper into what it means to live in covenant intimacy with Jesus. Scripture teaches us to know God as our Father and ourselves as His sons and daughters, but it also gives us another powerful picture: we are the Bride, and Jesus is the Bridegroom.


When we understand our relationship with Jesus through the lens of covenant, words like faithfulness, jealousy, adultery, and devotion take on a deeper meaning. God is not simply asking us to believe in Him or follow His commands; He desires our hearts, our trust, and our undivided devotion. This helps us understand why Scripture speaks so seriously about spiritual adultery and idolatry.


When the Heart Wanders

In Jeremiah 2:3–13, God reminds Israel of everything He had done for them. He rescued them from slavery, protected them through the wilderness, brought them into a fruitful land, and blessed them abundantly. Yet, after experiencing His goodness, their hearts wandered.


God essentially asks them, What did I do wrong? What fault did you find in Me that caused you to go so far from Me?


God had not failed them. Instead, Israel had forsaken the fountain of living waters and turned toward sources that could never truly satisfy them. They had received everything from God, yet they began looking somewhere else for what He had already faithfully provided.


Hosea 2:8 reveals the same problem. God had given Israel grain, wine, oil, silver, and gold, but Israel began attributing those blessings to her other “lovers.” The gifts became disconnected from the Giver, and Israel began believing that these counterfeit sources were responsible for her provision.


This reveals the underlying lie of idolatry:

“I can get what I need without depending solely on God.”


Exposing the Counterfeit

We see this vividly in 1 Kings 16–18. King Ahab married Jezebel, worshiped Baal, and led Israel further into idolatry. Baal was believed to be a source of rain and fertility, so God confronted the counterfeit at the exact point of its supposed power.

Elijah declared that there would be no rain, and for years the skies remained closed. The god who supposedly promised rain could not produce it.

Then came the confrontation on Mount Carmel. Elijah challenged Israel to stop wavering between two opinions: if the Lord was God, they should follow Him; if Baal was god, they should follow him. The prophets of Baal cried out desperately, but nothing happened. Elijah prayed, God answered with fire, and the counterfeit was exposed.


Then the rain came.


God demonstrated that what Israel had been seeking from Baal had always come from Him.


Our Idols Look Different Today

Most of us are not tempted to bow before a statue, but the promises of modern idols are remarkably similar.

Money promises provision.
Power
 promises protection.
Sex
 promises satisfaction.
People
 promise validation.
Significance
 promises influence.
Security
 promises control.


The issue is not necessarily having these things. Money, relationships, influence, work, family, and security can all be good gifts from God. The issue is what our hearts depend upon.


There is a profound difference between receiving something as a gift from God and relying upon that thing as a substitute for God.


Our job may be a channel of provision, but God is our Source. Our savings may be a blessing, but God is our Source. Relationships, doctors, opportunities, abilities, and connections can all be ways through which God blesses us, but we must never confuse the channel with the Source.


This is also why abundance can present a unique spiritual challenge. When we can solve a problem ourselves, purchase what we need, call the right person, or rely on our own resources, we can gradually lose our awareness of dependence upon God. The answer is not to reject His blessings, but to enjoy the gift without transferring our trust from the Giver to the gift.


What Is Competing for My Devotion?

In 2 Corinthians 11:2–3, Paul describes the church as a bride promised to one Husband, Christ, and then warns that our sincere and pure devotion to Him can be corrupted. Usually, this does not happen because we suddenly decide to reject Jesus; instead, something else slowly begins competing for our trust, attention, affection, or dependence.


Romans 12:2 tells us not to be conformed to this world, but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. We live surrounded by messages promising that more money, influence, approval, pleasure, or control will finally make us secure. These things rarely present themselves as idols; they simply whisper that we can get what we need somewhere other than God.


This is why the message becomes deeply personal.


What does my heart depend on?

When finances are threatened, where does my heart immediately go? When someone rejects me, what happens to my sense of worth? When plans fall apart, do I lose my peace because control had quietly become my security? What am I afraid to lose because I am not sure I will be okay without it?

These questions help reveal whether a good gift has quietly begun taking the place of the Giver.


There Is No Plan B

Undivided devotion says, “Jesus, You are my only plan.”


That does not mean we stop planning, working, saving, building relationships, seeking counsel, or enjoying the abundance God gives us. It means that underneath all of those things, our hearts remain settled on one truth: everything good in our lives comes from God, and none of it can replace God.


The job is a gift. Family is a gift. Health is a gift. Finances, opportunities, relationships, and influence are gifts, and we can receive them gratefully without asking them to become something they were never designed to be.


We can enjoy the fruitful land without worshiping the fruit. We can receive God’s provision without allowing provision to replace the Provider, and we can enjoy every good gift while remembering where it came from.


Jesus is our Bridegroom. He is our Provider, our security, and our Source. There is no Plan B. He alone is worthy of our undivided devotion.


Watch full sermon here.

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